Embodied Dominance: The Physicality of Being in Charge
May
18
12:00 PM12:00

Embodied Dominance: The Physicality of Being in Charge

Embodied Dominance: The Physicality of Being in Charge

Many new/learning dominants approach the practice in a way that keeps us more in our heads than in our bodies. This embodiment-focused workshop draws on somatic techniques from Gestalt therapy that will add a whole new dimension to the way you experience yourself as a top or Dominant, and to the way your bottoms and subs experience you. If you:

  • Have a hard time connecting with your own pleasure while you’re topping…

  • Know the skills but feel a lack of confidence when actually executing them…

  • Feel that your demeanor is not dominant but want it to be…

  • Have a hard time being present when topping…

  • Feel that the effect you have on your sub is not as impactful as you’d like it to be…

  • Find that you get stuck in your head a lot during scenes…

…then you won’t want to miss this unique in-person workshop. Come prepared for more experiencing than notetaking, we are going to train our body memory rather than our brain memory. Folks of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Date and Time: May 18th, 12pm-5pm

Fees: $389 per person

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Ego, Death, and Ego Death in BDSM
May
7
7:00 PM19:00

Ego, Death, and Ego Death in BDSM

Ego, Death, and Ego Death in BDSM

For the philosophical and personal growth-minded kinkster, this fascinating new workshop with Headmistress Shahrazad will explore BDSM in light of the concepts of ego as a necessary psychological function, death as a metaphor for change and transformation, and ego death as a phase in one’s inner journey where one’s subjective identity is temporarily lost. We will also examine the metaphor of the Hero’s Journey and use it as inspiration to guide our kink explorations towards helping us reach our fullest potential as human (and spiritual) beings.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Bondage Double Bill: The Psychology of Bondage + Rope Bondage 101
May
5
12:00 PM12:00

Bondage Double Bill: The Psychology of Bondage + Rope Bondage 101

Bondage Double Bill: The Psychology of Bondage + Rope Bondage 101

Join this live intensive afternoon for the bondage-curious and slightly experienced. HM Shahrazad will take you through their popular course on the psychology of bondage, giving you a thorough overview of over 15 different approaches to and intentions for bondage scenes and how to successfully execute them (lecture and discussion). Then Goddess Freya Fae will guide participants through an experiential component, walking you through the basics of rope bondage technique. All experiential components during the workshop are clothes-on and non-explicit. You are welcome to register yourself and a friend if you’d like to work with someone you know, otherwise participants will be paired with each other to practice the techniques. Attendance will be limited to 10 spots. Folks of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad and Goddess Freya Fae

Location: The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Date and Time: May 5th, 12pm-5pm

Fees: $429 per person

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BDSM/Kink Sensitivity Training for Clinicians
May
4
12:00 PM12:00

BDSM/Kink Sensitivity Training for Clinicians

BDSM/Kink Sensitivity Training for Clinicians

Are you a therapist or health-care professional interested in deepening your understanding of how to work with clients who practice BDSM/kink? HM Shahrazad brings two decades of lifestyle and professional experience to the forefront to clarify the unique challenges that this population faces when seeking clinical care. They will dispel myths, give you a nuanced overview of these alternative psycho-sexual practices, and then provide practical tools and language to be able to provide genuinely supportive kink and sex-positive care. Class format will be lecture as well as small and large group discussion. Clinicians of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Date and Time: May 4th, 12pm-5pm

Fees: $389 per person

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Everything You Wanted to Know About Becoming A Pro-Dominant
Apr
30
7:00 PM19:00

Everything You Wanted to Know About Becoming A Pro-Dominant

Everything You Wanted to Know About Becoming A Pro-Dominant

Curious about becoming a Professional Dominant? This evening is designed to give you a detailed overview of the landscape of Professional Domination in Toronto (and Canada less specifically), so you can decide whether to pursue this challenging but rewarding career. The evening will include information on legalities, set-up costs, safety, pursuing training, working independently versus working for a house, building a client base, and more!

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Intentionality and the Submissive Journey
Apr
27
12:00 PM12:00

Intentionality and the Submissive Journey

Intentionality and the Submissive Journey

Embarking on the journey of surrender in an erotic context as a submissive, bottom, or other s-type can be overwhelming – we can be balancing feeling like a kid in a candy store with a level of vulnerability that we may never have experienced before. This intensive live workshop will give you a structured framework for bringing the power of intention to your explorations, helping you drive confidently on the road you want to take while avoiding the ditches on either side. Our experience together will include personal reflection, paired discussion, group discussion, and lecture, and is open to s-types with any level of experience, of any gender or sexual orientation. All participants will leave with a concrete roadmap and practical tools that will bring inner clarity as well as support play negotiations.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Date and Time: April 27th, 12pm-5pm

Fees: $389 per person

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Brat Play 101
Apr
16
7:00 PM19:00

Brat Play 101

Brat Play 101

"Brats” often get a bad rap in the BDSM scene, seemingly causing many a Dominant to pull their hair out in frustration. The reason is often because brats are viewed as disobedient or rude submissives instead of as a unique sub-category of bottom requiring a completely different approach. This workshop is dedicated to helping folks appreciate and learn how to enjoy this style of play. We will delve into what brat play is and isn’t, the underlying motivations for being a brat, how to know if your submissive style is “bratty”, what forms of dominance are most compatible, the biggest mistakes dominants make when playing with brats, how to wind down a bratting scene, and specific aftercare needs for both the top and the bottom.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Attunement and Connection Essentials for BDSM Practitioners
Apr
6
to Apr 7

Attunement and Connection Essentials for BDSM Practitioners

Attunement and Connection Essentials for BDSM Practitioners

Do you want to take your BDSM to a whole new level of depth? What most practitioners of kink don’t realize is that successful scenes don’t come from having the sexiest fetish-wear or the coolest equipment, but rather emerge from the degree of trust, presence and intimacy that we have the ability to cultivate with the people we play with. The skills of attunement and connection are not necessarily innate, but they can be trained and learned. Join HM Shahrazad for a profound two-day intensive that will weave together techniques of mindfulness, Gestalt therapy, somatic awareness, energy perception, grounding, introspection, and ritual, all within a BDSM/kink context. Together we will learn to set ego aside and come into radical acceptance of the opportunities that each scene brings for profound, healing human connection. Folks of all genders and sexual orientations welcome.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: The Ritual Chamber. The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Date and Time: April 6th and 7th, 12pm-5pm

Fees: $689 per person

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“Established”: Building a Sustainable Long-Term Pro BDSM Practice
Mar
26
7:00 PM19:00

“Established”: Building a Sustainable Long-Term Pro BDSM Practice

“Established”: Building a Sustainable Long-Term Pro BDSM Practice

Anyone can get into Professional BDSM, but only a small percentage remain in the industry longer than a year or two. What it takes to get started and what it takes to make your practice personally, ethically, and economically sustainable over the long-term are two completely different beasts. In this workshop, Headmistress Shahrazad will share the secrets of her longevity as a Professional Dominatrix over the last 20 years. Learn what clients to keep and what clients to watch out for, how to gain and keep “regular” clients, tips for supporting yourself emotionally and financially through periods of high and low income, the importance of maintaining a bottom line of ethics and values, how to bounce back from burnout, and much more!

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Managing Difficult Clients for Pro-Dominants
Mar
16
12:00 PM12:00

Managing Difficult Clients for Pro-Dominants

Managing Difficult Clients for Pro-Dominants

This invaluable live workshop is geared towards working BDSM professionals as well as those looking to get into the field. Becoming skilled at managing difficult clients is essential to preventing burnout and to keeping yourself safe in what can be an intense and emotionally demanding profession. We will explore prototypes of the most common types of difficult clients using anonymous case studies taken from real life scenarios, establishing “best practices” for management for a wide range of relational challenges that emerge between clients and professional BDSM practitoners. Participants will leave with a deeper understanding of the motivations of difficult clients, and will master practical tools for handling contact with them, significantly reducing the stress of these daily interpersonal challenges.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: The Ritual Chamber. Address will be emailed to ticket holders 24-48 hours before event.

Fees: $389 per person

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Achieving the Perfect Mindfuck
Mar
14
7:00 PM19:00

Achieving the Perfect Mindfuck

Achieving the Perfect Mindfuck

Many kinksters are into the thrill that comes from experiencing the combination of fear, suspense and arousal, while also trusting that the person you are playing with is keeping you safe. This interactive and hilarious class will give you tons of ideas for hot ways in which you can consensually and safely “mindfuck” your play partner in a BDSM scene, emphasizing trust-building, psychological and physical safety and the unique process of negotiating something that will be an “unknown” to the submissive.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Intro to Dis/Ability and Kink
Mar
6
7:00 PM19:00

Intro to Dis/Ability and Kink

Intro to Dis/Ability and Kink

Join Ms. Chloe Mars for a new workshop focusing on the intersection of accessibility and kink. If you identify as disabled, have a play partner with a disability, have mobility limitations, are recovering from injury, have sensory needs, or are just looking to make your kink practice more inclusive, this workshop is for you! Through structured learning, open discussion and participant collaboration you’ll gain valuable insights and practical resources to help foster more accessible kink environments and dynamics.

Facilitated by: Ms. Chloe Mars

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Munch - February 19
Feb
19
7:00 PM19:00

Munch - February 19

TRC Munch

About:

Munches are BDSM socials held in a casual pub or restaurant, and are an opportunity for like-minded kinksters to meet, learn, eat great food, and create community.

The TRC Munch is a casual monthly social/educational event for kinksters of all stripes, hosted by The Ritual Chamber dungeon (but physically taking place at a local restaurant, location TBD). We offer a femdom-run, queer/trans positive, and sex worker friendly space that is open for all kinky and kink-curious humans to attend.

Evenings may include icebreakers, speakers, panels, discussion, and of course, plenty of social time.


Cost:

$10 in advance. Advance ticket purchase required. Do not just show up – if you’re not on our list you will be refused entry.

Rules:

  • We have a zero-tolerance policy against racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, misogyny, and other forms of hate. Please come with an attitude of respect for all humans.

  • Come dressed in casual street-wear. Shirts with non-explicit kink inferences are fine but fetish-wear is not.

  • Don’t disturb those dining at the establishment who are not a part of our munch.

  • No PDA or explicit kink play.

  • All attendees are encouraged to purchase something to eat or drink so that we can support our host restaurant, which has had a difficult time through the pandemic. Please be kind to your waitstaff so we will be welcomed back in future.

  • Don’t yuck another person’s yum. You may not be into the same kinks as your fellow attendees, but we ask that all participants have tolerance for each other’s differences.

  • No pictures unless everyone in the frame verbally consents to the picture being taken/posted.

  • Should there be another wave of the pandemic causing us to be unable to meet in person, we will pivot the munch onto Zoom for as long as necessary. We will follow public health recommendations in that regard.

  • Organizers reserve the right to ask anyone to leave the event at their discretion should they be in contravention of the rules of the TRC munch.

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Dirty Talk 101
Feb
13
7:00 PM19:00

Dirty Talk 101

Dirty Talk 101

Skillful, hot, and conscious dirty talk is a pretty rare thing to come by– even those who are otherwise confident and articulate can face road blocks when it comes to taking those skills into a scene. Once you get the hang of it, dirty talk can easily become one of the most versatile, fun, and sexy skills in your kinky toolbox. In this 2 hour intensive we will be delving into the psychological and emotional aspects of dirty talk, from Dominant and submissive perspectives. Through building confidence and engaging with your partner's desires, we will learn how to turn your vocabulary into something just as stimulating as the caress of leather cuffs or the sting of a paddle.

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Techniques for Coaching Bottoms Through Pain Play
Feb
6
7:00 PM19:00

Techniques for Coaching Bottoms Through Pain Play

Techniques for Coaching Bottoms Through Pain Play

Many Dominants are sadists and enjoy subjecting their submissives to painful sensations, and many submissives are masochists and enjoy receiving those sensations. This practical workshop will highlight the ten most important psychological and physiological factors that impact a bottom’s ability to process pain, and then teach you fourteen easy pain processing techniques that can be employed by the Top and/or bottom to take your sadomasochistic scenes to the next level of intensity while ensuring enjoyment, presence, and safety.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Old School Discipline
Jan
30
7:00 PM19:00

Old School Discipline

Old School Discipline

Discipline techniques that used to be employed in domestic or school settings (and which might now be considered ‘old fashioned’) can still have tremendous application within consensual power exchange dynamics. Whether it is a desire to revisit past experiences on our own terms, or simply the love of authentic historical methods, there are ways to incorporate these techniques safely and sanely into our play. This workshop will give historical background on spanking, mouth soaping, line writing, figging, and kneeling on rice, and then will teach you how to administer each safely within a kink context.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Using BDSM for Personal Healing
Jan
16
7:00 PM19:00

Using BDSM for Personal Healing

Using BDSM for Personal Healing

Within many esoteric frameworks, water corresponds to our emotions, earth to our bodies, air to our minds, and fire to our spirits. This unique workshop will begin by exploring the four elements as they exist within you, both in balance and out of balance, and what that might look like for you on a practical level. Shahrazad will then present an original teaching on the elemental correspondences of different kinds of kink/fetish/SM play. Finally we’ll put everything together so that you learn how to 1) identify an imbalance in yourself or your partner and 2) mindfully harness the water, air, earth or fire within a scene of your choosing, to 3) create opportunities for deep personal transformation and healing for yourself or others.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to ticket holders prior to workshop.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Munch - January 15
Jan
15
7:00 PM19:00

Munch - January 15

TRC Munch

About:

Munches are BDSM socials held in a casual pub or restaurant, and are an opportunity for like-minded kinksters to meet, learn, eat great food, and create community.

The TRC Munch is a casual monthly social/educational event for kinksters of all stripes, hosted by The Ritual Chamber dungeon (but physically taking place at a local restaurant, location TBD). We offer a femdom-run, queer/trans positive, and sex worker friendly space that is open for all kinky and kink-curious humans to attend.

Evenings may include icebreakers, speakers, panels, discussion, and of course, plenty of social time.


Cost:

$10 in advance. Advance ticket purchase required. Do not just show up – if you’re not on our list you will be refused entry.

Rules:

  • We have a zero-tolerance policy against racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, misogyny, and other forms of hate. Please come with an attitude of respect for all humans.

  • Come dressed in casual street-wear. Shirts with non-explicit kink inferences are fine but fetish-wear is not.

  • Don’t disturb those dining at the establishment who are not a part of our munch.

  • No PDA or explicit kink play.

  • All attendees are encouraged to purchase something to eat or drink so that we can support our host restaurant, which has had a difficult time through the pandemic. Please be kind to your waitstaff so we will be welcomed back in future.

  • Don’t yuck another person’s yum. You may not be into the same kinks as your fellow attendees, but we ask that all participants have tolerance for each other’s differences.

  • No pictures unless everyone in the frame verbally consents to the picture being taken/posted.

  • Should there be another wave of the pandemic causing us to be unable to meet in person, we will pivot the munch onto Zoom for as long as necessary. We will follow public health recommendations in that regard.

  • Organizers reserve the right to ask anyone to leave the event at their discretion should they be in contravention of the rules of the TRC munch.

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Brand Spanking New: An Experiential Impact Play Bootcamp for Couples
Jan
7
1:00 PM13:00

Brand Spanking New: An Experiential Impact Play Bootcamp for Couples

Brand Spanking New: An Experiential Impact Play Bootcamp for Couples

with Headmistress Shahrazad

Are you “BRAND SPANKING NEW” to the art of impact play? Perhaps your partner has broached the idea but neither of you know where to start? This experiential boot camp with experienced disciplinarian Headmistress Shahrazad will have you spanking with confidence, accuracy, and empathy by the end of the afternoon, while having a ton of fun to boot. We will cover the art of hand spanking as well as techniques using paddles, canes, straps, belts and floggers. Positions, psychology, safety, negotiation, check-in techniques, warm-ups and aftercare will all be covered, and participants will have many opportunities to get hands-on with experiential exercises and structured/supervised practice time.

NOTES:

  • Participants will be asked to wear bathing suit bottoms or underwear for the exercises in order to get the most out of the learning experiences. Exercises can all be graded from gentle to more intense depending on individual participant preferences.

  • Couples of all descriptions welcome, you can even just bring a friend. (While we prefer that couples/pairs attend, we may be able to provide demo bottoms for a few solo folks who are interested in attending. Please note that we cannot guarantee the gender of the demo bottoms in this case).

  • BONUS! FIRST 10 COUPLES REGISTERED RECEIVE A FREE IMPACT PLAY STARTER KIT ($75 value), including an Ouch! Hearts Paddle, a Leather Mini Spade Crop, a Sex & Mischief Mahogany Flogger, aftercare lotion and more!

Location: The Ritual Chamber dungeon. Address will be sent to registered participants.

Fees: $449 per couple; $259 per individual

Time: 1:00pm - 5:30pm EST

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Navigating BDSM With PTSD/C-PTSD
Dec
14
7:00 PM19:00

Navigating BDSM With PTSD/C-PTSD

Navigating BDSM With PTSD/C-PTSD

A common myth about BDSM is that it is a dysfunctional form of sexuality that emerges out of past trauma. While that is patently untrue, there are a lot of kinksters with trauma histories who find it hard to talk about their BDSM fantasies, either because they don’t want people to assume a correlation between the two, or because they don’t know how to navigate the minefield between triggers and desired experiences. This workshop will address the unique challenges of exploring kink when you suffer from PTSD or C-PTSD, giving you the tools and knowledge you need to explore in a supported way while sparing your nervous system further stress. We will also dedicate a portion of the workshop to exploring the oft controversial decision to use BDSM to re-create traumatic circumstances from the past as part of the healing journey.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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BDSM Domination And The Ethical Use Of Power
Nov
29
7:00 PM19:00

BDSM Domination And The Ethical Use Of Power

BDSM Domination And The Ethical Use Of Power

Join Headmistress Shahrazad for a unique inquiry into the ethical use of power within the practice of BDSM Domination (both Pro and Lifestyle). We will examine in depth the specific ways in which we must guard against abuse of power vis a vis our submissives and look at practical methods of active co-empower for mutual benefit and gain. Finally, tools will be provided so that attendees can learn to build checks and balances into their BDSM play that will help them minimize negative impacts while building healthy, intimate, consensual power exchange dynamics.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Virtual/Remote Domination
Nov
13
7:00 PM19:00

Virtual/Remote Domination

Virtual/Remote Domination

Are you in a long distance dynamic?  Are you a Pro who is moving online?  Or perhaps, you have a play partner who is temporarily inaccessible to you?  Join Lady Pim as she walks you through all the nuances of Virtual/Remote Domination.  This workshop addresses common issues and practical workarounds, keeping connected without being on your phone 24/7, and how to make your submissive feel like you're in the room.  After this, you may never go back to in person scenes!  (Maybe.)

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Intro To Protocol
Nov
2
7:00 PM19:00

Intro To Protocol

Intro To Protocol

Protocol are the ritualized rules and actions that Dominants and submissives co-create together, symbolically representing the consensual exchange of power. The enactment of them becomes the structure and embodiment of your alternate D/s reality. Learn how to translate what is meaningful to you into your own unique protocol, what to do when protocol stops being observed, and the pros and cons of incorporating commonly used D/s protocol into your play.

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Roleplay Masterclass
Oct
25
7:00 PM19:00

Roleplay Masterclass

Roleplay Masterclass

Welcome to Lady Pim's Roleplay Masterclass! Not only will you learn the classic archetypes, but you'll also explore some of the more unusual roleplays as well. Lady Pim will walk you through crafting characters, creating storylines, and relating it all back to the kinky activities you enjoy. Whether you just need a boost of confidence, some inspiration or ideas for future scenes, or somewhere to start with your roleplaying, this is the class for you.

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Munch - October 16
Oct
16
7:00 PM19:00

Munch - October 16

TRC Munch

About:

Munches are BDSM socials held in a casual pub or restaurant, and are an opportunity for like-minded kinksters to meet, learn, eat great food, and create community.

The TRC Munch is a casual monthly social/educational event for kinksters of all stripes, hosted by The Ritual Chamber dungeon (but physically taking place at a local restaurant, location TBD). We offer a femdom-run, queer/trans positive, and sex worker friendly space that is open for all kinky and kink-curious humans to attend.

Evenings may include icebreakers, speakers, panels, discussion, and of course, plenty of social time.


Cost:

$10 in advance. Advance ticket purchase required. Do not just show up – if you’re not on our list you will be refused entry.

Rules:

  • We have a zero-tolerance policy against racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, misogyny, and other forms of hate. Please come with an attitude of respect for all humans.

  • Come dressed in casual street-wear. Shirts with non-explicit kink inferences are fine but fetish-wear is not.

  • Don’t disturb those dining at the establishment who are not a part of our munch.

  • No PDA or explicit kink play.

  • All attendees are encouraged to purchase something to eat or drink so that we can support our host restaurant, which has had a difficult time through the pandemic. Please be kind to your waitstaff so we will be welcomed back in future.

  • Don’t yuck another person’s yum. You may not be into the same kinks as your fellow attendees, but we ask that all participants have tolerance for each other’s differences.

  • No pictures unless everyone in the frame verbally consents to the picture being taken/posted.

  • Should there be another wave of the pandemic causing us to be unable to meet in person, we will pivot the munch onto Zoom for as long as necessary. We will follow public health recommendations in that regard.

  • Organizers reserve the right to ask anyone to leave the event at their discretion should they be in contravention of the rules of the TRC munch.

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Intro To Butt Plugs, Strap-Ons And Other Insertables
Oct
5
7:00 PM19:00

Intro To Butt Plugs, Strap-Ons And Other Insertables

Intro To Butt Plugs, Strap-Ons And Other Insertables

If it can safely be inserted into the body for consensual pleasure, humiliation, mind-fuck or other kinky reasons, this workshop will touch on it. We will look at basic safety, how to choose the right insertables for your or your bottom’s body, best practices for the use of lube, how to build anticipation towards penetration both verbally and physically, and much more!

Facilitated by: Headmistress Shahrazad

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Munch - September 18
Sep
18
7:00 PM19:00

Munch - September 18

TRC Munch

About:

Munches are BDSM socials held in a casual pub or restaurant, and are an opportunity for like-minded kinksters to meet, learn, eat great food, and create community.

The TRC Munch is a casual monthly social/educational event for kinksters of all stripes, hosted by The Ritual Chamber dungeon (but physically taking place at a local restaurant, location TBD). We offer a femdom-run, queer/trans positive, and sex worker friendly space that is open for all kinky and kink-curious humans to attend.

Evenings may include icebreakers, speakers, panels, discussion, and of course, plenty of social time.


Cost:

$10 in advance. Advance ticket purchase required. Do not just show up – if you’re not on our list you will be refused entry.

Rules:

  • We have a zero-tolerance policy against racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, misogyny, and other forms of hate. Please come with an attitude of respect for all humans.

  • Come dressed in casual street-wear. Shirts with non-explicit kink inferences are fine but fetish-wear is not.

  • Don’t disturb those dining at the establishment who are not a part of our munch.

  • No PDA or explicit kink play.

  • All attendees are encouraged to purchase something to eat or drink so that we can support our host restaurant, which has had a difficult time through the pandemic. Please be kind to your waitstaff so we will be welcomed back in future.

  • Don’t yuck another person’s yum. You may not be into the same kinks as your fellow attendees, but we ask that all participants have tolerance for each other’s differences.

  • No pictures unless everyone in the frame verbally consents to the picture being taken/posted.

  • Should there be another wave of the pandemic causing us to be unable to meet in person, we will pivot the munch onto Zoom for as long as necessary. We will follow public health recommendations in that regard.

  • Organizers reserve the right to ask anyone to leave the event at their discretion should they be in contravention of the rules of the TRC munch.

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Tease and Denial
Sep
12
7:00 PM19:00

Tease and Denial

Tease and Denial

Enticed by Tease and Denial? You're not alone. T & D is one of the most versatile and nuanced kinks around, and there are infinite possibilities to how we can indulge it. In this brand new class, Lady Pim examines why we crave Tease and Denial, and offers practical advice for incorporating it into any scene. Join Pim as she looks at the most basic T & D premises, all the way up to the more unconventional and creative. For folks on either side of the slash, you'll leave with a whole new set of skills for getting yourself worked up, or leaving a play partner all hot & bothered.

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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Pet Play 101
Aug
31
7:00 PM19:00

Pet Play 101

Pet Play 101

Join Lady Pim in this brand new workshop, talking about everything to do with pet play. This class focuses on crafting your pet persona, looking at the wide range of scenes you can create, and dropping into pet space. Let Lady Pim's workshop be your resource for bringing intentionality, creativity, and fun  into your pet play!

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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TRC Munch - August 21
Aug
21
7:00 PM19:00

TRC Munch - August 21

TRC Munch

About:

Munches are BDSM socials held in a casual pub or restaurant, and are an opportunity for like-minded kinksters to meet, learn, eat great food, and create community.

The TRC Munch is a casual monthly social/educational event for kinksters of all stripes, hosted by The Ritual Chamber dungeon (but physically taking place at a local restaurant, location TBD). We offer a femdom-run, queer/trans positive, and sex worker friendly space that is open for all kinky and kink-curious humans to attend.

Evenings may include icebreakers, speakers, panels, discussion, and of course, plenty of social time.


Cost:

$10 in advance. Advance ticket purchase required. Do not just show up – if you’re not on our list you will be refused entry.

Rules:

  • We have a zero-tolerance policy against racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, misogyny, and other forms of hate. Please come with an attitude of respect for all humans.

  • Come dressed in casual street-wear. Shirts with non-explicit kink inferences are fine but fetish-wear is not.

  • Don’t disturb those dining at the establishment who are not a part of our munch.

  • No PDA or explicit kink play.

  • All attendees are encouraged to purchase something to eat or drink so that we can support our host restaurant, which has had a difficult time through the pandemic. Please be kind to your waitstaff so we will be welcomed back in future.

  • Don’t yuck another person’s yum. You may not be into the same kinks as your fellow attendees, but we ask that all participants have tolerance for each other’s differences.

  • No pictures unless everyone in the frame verbally consents to the picture being taken/posted.

  • Should there be another wave of the pandemic causing us to be unable to meet in person, we will pivot the munch onto Zoom for as long as necessary. We will follow public health recommendations in that regard.

  • Organizers reserve the right to ask anyone to leave the event at their discretion should they be in contravention of the rules of the TRC munch.

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Dirty Talk 101
Aug
17
7:00 PM19:00

Dirty Talk 101

Dirty Talk 101

If you struggle with what to say during your kink scenes, let Lady Pim guide you in her new workshop about dirty talk. This informative and playful class will cover negotiating talkative scenes, improvising in the moment, and feeling verbally confident. Lady Pim will give you all the tools to bring your best dirty talking self every time.

Facilitated by: Lady Pim

Location: Virtual through Zoom Meeting. Link will be emailed to you upon registration.

Our Fees are on a sliding scale from $20-$40. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford:

• Pay-It-Forward Ticket ($40/person) - Please choose this option if you can afford it and would like to pay it forward so we can make discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

• Regular Ticket ($30/person) - Regular ticket price. This is what most people should pay.

• Subsidized Ticket ($20/person) - Please choose this option if the regular price would be a barrier to your participation.

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