HM Shahrazad: BDSM Educator and Keynote Speaker

  • HM Shahrazad is a skilled BDSM educator known for workshops filled with practical skills, accessible knowledge, opportunities for personal growth, and deep psychological insights.

  • Workshop Duration: Regular workshops last 2 hours, with intensives ranging from 4 to 14 hours.

  • Availability: Available for private sessions tailored to both small and large groups, and as a keynote speaker for kink conferences and events.

past Venues and Events:

  • Salt Lake City:

    • Rocky Mountain Rebellion

  • Dallas:

    • Beyond Vanilla

  • Los Angeles:

    • Leather H.E.A.T.

  • Budapest:

    • Risley and Spankington BDSM Club

    • First Hungarian BDSM Conference

  • Amsterdam:

    • Keeping It Kinky

  • Toronto:

    • Good For Her

    • Oasis Aqualounge

    • The Everything to Do With Sex Show

    • University of Toronto Scarborough

    • Toronto Bound

    • Toronto Leather Pride

    • Unholy Harvest

  • Sudbury:

    • Midnight At Dawn

  • Ottawa:

    • Queering Power

    • Ottawa Leatherfest

  • Montreal:

    • Montreal Fusion Weekend

  • New York City:

    • Purple Passion

    • Mastering the Art of Spanking*

    • Energy Awareness and Chakra Play*

    • Role Play Bootcamp for Beginners*

    • Pleasurable Pinches: Clothespins, Clamps, and Zippers

    • The Art of Fisting*

    • Verbal Bondage for the Rope Challenged

    • Basic Bondage Safety

    • The Art of Crafting BDSM Scenes*

    • Old School Discipline*

    • ABDL Play 101*

    • The Sensuality of Foot Fetishism

    • Creative Anal Play in D/s: The Next Frontier*

    • Knife Play 101*

    • The Art of Boot Worship

    • Practical Improv Skills for Hot Kink Scenes*

    • The Art of Discrete Public Kink*

    • Consensual Humiliation Play: Risk Awareness and Emotional Safety*

    • Creative Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation

    • Exploring Consensual Objectification*

    • Strap-Ons, Butt Plugs, and Other Insertables

    • High Protocol Tea Service Training for Service Submissives

    • Tickle Torture 101*

    • Mindfulness Training for BDSM

    • Introduction to the Submissive Journey

    • Brand Spanking New: Impact Play Intensive

    • Unpacking Your Relationship to Power Intensive

    • Embodied Dominance: The Physicality of Being in Charge

    • Spirituality and BDSM Intensive

    • Everything You Wanted to Know About Becoming a Pro-Dominant But Were Afraid to Ask

    • Established: Building a Sustainable Professional BDSM Practice

    • Sex Work and Self-Care

    • Managing Difficult Clients for Pro-Dominants (4-Part Series)

    • Kink, Power Dynamics, and Consent

    • Decolonizing Kink

    • The Wonderful World of Sexual Fetish

    • Topping and Bottoming

    • Unpacking Kink-Phobia Within the Leather Community

    • Sensual Seductive Control for Beginners

    • Building a Bad-Ass Dungeon

    • Dipping Your Toe into Pain Play

    • Seven Secrets of Highly Satisfied Kinksters

    • Understanding Sadism and Masochism

    • Submission Without Masochism

    • Contracts, Boundaries, and Negotiation in BDSM

    • Safety and Boundary Pushing in BDSM

    • Topspace/subspace: Exploring Altered States in BDSM

    • Deepening Intimacy, Presence, and Connection in Power Exchange

    • Coaching Your Sub/Bottom Through Pain Play

    • Breathing Techniques for Pleasure and Pain

    • Troubleshooting BDSM Scenes Gone Wrong

    • Aftercare 101

    • Navigating BDSM with PTSD/C-PTSD

    • Doing Kink as an ADHD’er

    • Introduction to Protocol

    • Styles of Dominance and Submission

    • Brat Play 101

    • The Scope of Our Responsibility As Dominants

    • BDSM Domination and the Ethical Use of Power

    • Submitting to Master Chaos: When Life Gets in the Way

    • Primal Play: Consent-Based Predator/Prey Dynamics

    • A Kink in the Relationship

    • BDSM Lifestyle Dating 101

    • Female-Led Relationships (FLRs) for Beginners (Includes all female and femme-identified individuals)

    • Permission to Feel Satisfied, Sir?

    • The Psychology of Dominance and Submission: An Introduction

    • Family-ish Dynamics: Age Play in Kink

    • Exploring the Goddess Archetype in Femdom Subcultures

    • The Psychology of Medical Fetishism

    • The Psychology of Bondage

    • Gender Play in Kink

    • Naughty: Incorporating Taboo in Role Play

    • Achieving the Perfect Mindfuck

    • That Which is Hidden: Overcoming Shame in BDSM

    • The Reluctant Dominatrix

    • Active Submission and Bottom Empowerment

    • Ritual, Ordeal, and Rites of Passage

    • Using BDSM for Personal Healing

    • Coming Out As Kinky: Do’s and Don’ts for a Successful Conversation

    • Ego, Death, and Ego Death in BDSM

    • I Own Me: An Introduction to Self-Collaring

    • The Caring Sadist: Giving Pain as a Form of Love

    • Understanding Your Post-BDSM Scene Feels

    • Zen and the Art of Submission

    • Healing From Traumatic BDSM Dynamics

    • Better BDSM Communication: Expanding Your Sensory Vocabulary

    • Destigmatizing the Sex Conversation

    • Sexual Communication Secrets

    • Sexual Magic for Manifestation

    • Mild to Wild: Playing with Sexual Intensity

    • Expanding Your Pleasure Menu