READ / Why Does Spanking Feel Good?
Thwack, sting, smack, soothe. What is it about being bent over, exposed and hit with intense sensation that makes people weak in the knees (good thing you have support, right)? Well quite simply - it’s not simple. Like sands through the hourglass these are the kinks of our lives. Every gritty, rough speck got that way differently even though from the outside, they’re all telling time.
The secret between pain and pleasure is context. Hair pulling by lover = good. Hair pulling by escaped, angry, attacking monkey = bad. A lot of the confusion about BDSM stems from not applying context. Why would someone want to be spanked? It hurts, right?! Well, ask yourself this - why do people like rollercoasters?
If you blindfolded someone and throw them on a rollercoaster, they probably wouldn’t enjoy it. But try being in line for the same rollercoaster. Sure it’s scary but now you have time to imagine the agonizing tick tick tick of the climb, the torture of waiting at the top for an eternity and then the sudden surge forward. Once on the ride you’re disoriented. It didn’t seem this high from the ground. You can’t see what’s in front of you. Even though you studied the loops and hills while in line, you couldn’t prepare for the physical sensations. The more you resist, the less you feel. So you submit. You relax against your secure steel harness and fall into the inclines, the dips, the curves. The sound of wind and screams coalesce into a meditative ribbon of sound. Your senses are heightened.
The rush of knowing you can’t control the ride. The comforting but unnerving state of submission.
But it’s not fear.
You stood in line because you saw the gating surrounding the ride. The uniformed team of personnel operating the ride. The reputation of the amusement park. The concrete metal finality of that harness locking you in. Your friends that are with you. The long line of people who have gone before you. You submit to what is scary because it’s safe.
It no longer becomes fear or pain. It is intense sensation because now you Trust.
That is context.
And that is why people like spanking.
Among 267 other reasons.
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Hand Paddles
Company: Viktoria Torments
Materials: Flat wood w/ optional Brass or Gunmetal Spikes, and either Leather or Nylon straps
Pain type: Mix, but more stingy for the flat version & more thuddy for the spiked version,
Price: $40 for Flat, $50 for Spiked
This little hand paddle fully covers your hand to enhance both the sting and thud of the impact, while allowing the same intimacy and motion as a hand spanking.. We wouldn't want the Top's hands to bruise too much!
The wood portion of this paddle is shaped to contour to your palm and to cover your hand without impeding your motions. It is 5-1/2" by 3-1/2" in size, and is 1" thick at its thickest.
It is held firmly in place by the two leather straps; one of adjustable length for your palm, and a smaller one for your fingers. It fits any size hands to ensure that the pleasure of the spanking lasts as long as desired!
