10 Scene Ideas for Your First Session by Lady Pim
10 Scene Ideas for Your First Session
By Lady Pim
1. Mistress's Little Plaything.
For those of you interested in objectification, giving up control, and have a strong desire to be of service to your Dom(me), this scene may be a great place to start. Within the sub's desires/boundaries/limits, this role play dictates that the Dom(me) uses her sub in whatever way he or she sees fit. As it can be difficult for a newbie to create a scene for themselves, this one puts the majority of the scene crafting on the Dom(me). Depending on the sub's preferences, it can include being a f*cktoy, punching bag, sissy boy, torture victim, or lab rat.
2. A Sensation Platter.
For folks who aren't quite sure where they should focus their session, this scene can be a great introduction to various tools, implements, and sensations. The Dom(me) will strive to give you a wide spectrum of sensations from prickly/pinchy/scratchy to ones that penetrate deep into your muscles. Since this includes new types of stimulation for the sub, the Dom(me) will play on the light/moderate end of the spectrum. Unless you find one you really like, that is!
3. A Trip To The Principal's Office.
For clients who have a fantasy about their Teacher, Caregiver, Captor, or Doctor, a classic kinky role play might be for them. These types of scenes tend to be for people who enjoy a more interactive, playful, and creative type of scene. Role play involves improvisation and collaboration between you and your Dom(me). The two of you can have fun creating a story, characters, and incorporate whatever kinks you like along the way!
4. Obedience Training.
This is quite literally, the perfect scene for a beginner. This is because obedience training involves the Dom(me) teaching the sub his/her specific protocol or rules. This usually involves training on positions, etiquette, and what is generally expected of a sub during a session. If you like being inspected, told what to do, and don't mind the correcting that goes along with it, then obedience training might be for you.
5. Sensory Deprivation/Overload.
Do you crave intensity? Or meditative stillness? Perhaps you long to be deprived of your senses in a blindfold or hood, so that other sensations are amplified? Or maybe you dream about experiencing too much stimuli for your brain to process? Either kink, or a scene that goes from one to the other, can be an intensely erotic experience for a new sub. If you picture your first time with a Pro being surprising, vulnerable, and intense, then sensory play might be for you.
6. How To Dominate Your Partner.
This is a great session idea for couples looking to learn more about the nuances of Domination. The Pro can be a hands on tutor for one of the clients, while the other acts as the demo bottom. The Pro can give a live presentation Dominating one of them, while the other watches and takes notes. The Pro can be the one watching on the side lines, and directing/suggesting/encouraging the couple as needed. Any way you look at it, the couple will be thrilled with this intimate workshop experience.
7. Sit Boy, Sit!
Pet play is a kink that is increasing in popularity because of its accesibility to new comers. This type of role play is playful, pain free, and pleasurable. It can incorporate learning new tricks, going for walks around the dungeon, rough housing, cage training, or being pet on the head. The Dom(me) (or Handler, in this instance) may put a collar and leash on you, a butt plug tail, or a pup mask. If the care free world of a domesticated animal sounds desirable to you, then embrace your inner pup/kitty and make your first session a pet play one.
8. Playing Dress Up.
Whether it's to explore your relationship with gender, feel immasculated, or simply because you like wearing lingerie, dressing up in women's clothes is always a fun time. Depending how far you want to go, this type of scene could include a wig, make-up, nail polish, stockings, and heels. If it's your first time, the scene could involve slut training, or sissy training, that looks much like obedience training (above). Your Dom(me) may ask you to talk in a higher register, or give them a lap dance, or demonstrate fellatio on a dildo. If you're open to it, a scene like this could introduce you to a whole new feminine aspect of yourself.
9. Mistresses' Little Helper.
If you are the kind of person that completes tasks as your love language, enjoys serving, and finds pleasure in making your partner's life easier, then you can take this feeling into the dungeon as well. Your Dom(me) may ask you to give them a foot massage, or behave as human furniture, or perform
some tasks around the dungeon. He/She may feel the need to test your fitness, endurance, or memory. Depending on your completion of the activities, you may deserve either a punishment, or a reward. All with the goal of making you the best little dungeon helper that you can be.
10. Nervous? Bring A Friend!
Do you have a competitive streak? Or an exhibitionist one? Maybe you just need someone to suffer along with you. The possibilities are endless when two subs enter the room. And if you don't have someone particular in mind, The Ritual Chamber has a Professional Sub to experience your session with you. Perhaps your Dom(me) will turn you against each other. Maybe they will force you to watch your loved one suffer, while you are bound helplessly beside them. Or there could be a cuckolding scenario, if you are into sensual play. With any combination of two subs, your session will be guaranteed to be twice as hot.